This would look cute on you

Grow your hair and get them smoothened from your roots to mid length and then curl the tips outwards something like Gina Gershon ...

thank you for youre answer, my englisch is not so good but i understand what youre saying

I would look into getting a keratin treatment. These procedures allow the hair to fall more flat and frizz free and is actually a healthy treatment that improves the health of your locks! I not only lasts for 3-4months, but also allows you to use minimal styling and achieves much more different and softer styling options.

Well, your hairdresser is just ridiculous then! There is alot you can do with curly hair! Mousse can be your best friend! Grow it out a bit, try a side part and use some mousse to help control the direction of the curls. It looks great but I know how tiring the same look can be! Good Luck!

I would grow it out to shoulder-length and even incorporate a side bang. I agree with @GoodFaith.....seek out a new hairdresser, there are plenty of other options for you.

You can grow it a bit and then do a face framing cut and add a few lowlights! But it looks great curly :)

Look for a new hairdresser.