Biolage Normalizing shampoo is a good one. Also Paul Mitchell's Tea Tree line is excellent.

Kerastase Volumactive Shampoo - It leaves no residue, smells amazing and keeps my fine hair from falling flat.
Kerastase Volumactive Mask - If you have extremely greasy hair, look for the oil-absorbing tea-tree oil in your conditioner. Use this volumizing mask every other wash.

Dandruff shampoo always seems to do the trick then it comes to drying. You can still use a weightless leave in conditioner at the ends and make sure not to wash every single day. Instead used a dry shampoo to suck up the natural oil. When our hair is too dry, it begins to over produce oil to compensate for the lack there of. So make sure you are using a leave in to hydrate those ends.

Two good recommendations for you are Neutrogena Anti-Residue Shampoo and Biolage Normalizing Shampoo.....both not too heavy and great for oily hair.

Try mixing your shampoo with a tablespoon of apple cider vinegar. As you wash, it will pull out the excess oils. First, you need to find another shampoo. Pantene is not a good choice, because it is very heavy and loaded with perfumes, etc. Look for another shampoo that says it's specifically made for oily hair.

Aussie shampoo! I had this problem when I had really long hair. Dove also dries out your hair while leaving it soft.